Allah can only facilitate change, and it is a duty to do so. Every day, you pray for a good life with your spouse. The Quran makes me think of a lovely dua. Allah is being asked for both a spouse’s and children’s comfort in this dua. Asking Allah to make them the “coolness of our eyes” indicates that we are crying tears of joy rather than hurt, which would be tears of anger or warmth. https://loveduaghar.com/